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There are also many types of insecurities, the one described in this article is the insecurity that has a root in neediness, which often drives needy and approval seeking thought processes.

Being needy and insecure in a relationship can cause the downfall of a relationship and if you’re needy and insecure in general you won’t get into a relationship in the first place.

Women want to be with a man who is confident and sure of himself. Neediness and approval all stems from a man wanting a woman to be OK with anything that has to do with him. Whether it’s internal or external, confidence and self-improvement can override that insecurity.

This can be a grooming choice, fashion choice, social choice etc…Wanting approval from women can happen in almost any situation. You don’t have to care about anyone’s opinion, or let others affect you, but that doesn’t mean that you about you isn’t approval worthy so you can’t be liked, or admired as well. Along with wanting people to like you, having approval from women can make a man feel more comfortable or confident.

We listen, pay attention, and want to be there for the other.

One of the major problems men claim to have, or are directly told they have (ouch),,is that they’re needy or insecure.

Neediness, or needing/wanting approval and “OKs” from women is a genuine problem that men have.

There are a few reasons why guys act in an approval seeking manner, and understanding them can help men to stop being needy and insecure in the future.

Even sitting in a bar, partaking in something, and then scanning to see if women were cool with what you just did, is needy behavior. When a guy gets a compliment, naturally it can make him feel good.